Apache eats memory processes with long poll requests. The technology is long poll, as in this video: http://www.screenr.com/SNH
Due to the time checking cycle, when the page is repeatedly updated, the Apache processes are spawning and memory is clogged, since the maxClients on the Apache cost 256, then the Apache, crossing the border, hangs. Only restarting helps. The apache is worth the itk module. Php is connected as an Apache module.